5 Things Moms Should Never Say to Other Moms

Oh motherhood. Such a wonderful, awful, amazing, terrifying, happy, crazy experience. Motherhood will make you feel every single emotion possible, including some emotions you didn’t even know existed. But there’s nothing like the anger/annoyance of an unnecessary comment from another mother. You know, someone who is going or has gone through the very thing you’re going through, but somehow feels the need to express disdain or criticize the job you’re trying your best at. So here are 5 things moms should never say to other moms:

1. Just wait. The problem with this simple, short, 2 word phrase is that it’s never followed up with things like, “Just wait til your kid starts bringing you margaritas, it’s so awesome!” Or “Just wait, in a couple months, you’re gonna be able to sleep in until 9am and your 2 year old will totally be able to make pancakes on his own.” Nope. Just wait is almost always followed by something negative and ain’t nobody got time for that.
2. You don’t feed your kid all organic? Girl, are you buying my groceries? Because if not then please STFU. I’ll feed my kid the best I possibly can but that might not include organic everything. And you know what, you and my kid will be just fine.
3. You look so tired. An appropriate response to that comment would be, “And you look so old.” Kidding! Not really. At some point, we all look haggard, run down, or tired, so there’s no need to point it out.
4. You’re going back to work/You’re staying at home with your child? GASP! Moms need to give other moms credit for whatever decisions they make with regards to working/staying at home. Period.
5. My kids would never do that. Right. Because you are a perfect parent with perfect kids. Maybe your kids would never do that but I am sure they did something else equally as bad. So please, get off your high horse and walk among us normal moms.

Alternate things moms can and should say to other moms include:

— Can I get you a refill on that mimosa?

— You look amazing and I totally can’t even see the spit up on your shirt!

What are some of the things you think moms should stop saying to other moms? Are you guilty of saying any of these?

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L